He makes me think

I like the way he makes me think.

And the way he calls me little girl.

I like the sound of his voice and his smile…

man, that smile… it is so very delightful.

He makes me want to believe in new beginnings.

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Differences: Dom/Top and Sub/bottom

THE QUESTION:
What to YOU is the difference between a Dom and a Top?
Sub and a bottom?

*Disclaimers:

(Apply gender as it works for you in this answer)

These are my thoughts. They fluctuate often as I learn new things and encounter new dynamics and the people involved in those dynamics. They are in no way intended to encompass or describe a one true way definition of Dom, Top, sub or bottom.*

To me, the biggest difference is in the level of need to dominate and the level of need to submit. Continue reading →

Strong Foundations – Back to Basics

polyOver the last year, we have been through a fuckton of changes in our non-monogamy.  I don’t really know what else to call it. We are definitely not monogamous. We’re past the notch in the bedpost, fucking for sport, just sex swinging but not quite all the way to poly. But, it’s not door swung wide, no holds barred, floundering in the deep end open either. I’m just not sure what the fuck to call it. So, for now, let’s just stick with calling it our non-monogamy. Continue reading →

Living a life to be loved

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The world is dark beyond the windows. The house is quiet as the kids sleep. We are having coffee. Daddy on his playstation playing baseball and I on my computer, perving fetlife and writing. I love these quiet mornings shared over coffee. Continue reading →

Off the Grid – A Day to Reconnect

offthegrid3Daddy and I have been actively involved with other people more intensely since February than at any other time in our lives together. It has been an adventure for sure, with plenty of ups and downs. Our emotional bandwidth is feeling stretched very thin and we’re thinking that maybe what we need is some time away just the two of us.  This weekend is that time.

Saturday, specifically will be a no technology day. We won’t be online, we won’t be answering phone calls or text messages, won’t know if an email comes in. From the time our eyes open to the time they close, we will be officially off the grid. So if you’re trying to reach us on Saturday, you won’t get us. We might get back to you on Sunday. But… it might be Monday.

It’s time for us to unplug and reconnect.

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Why do you Poly

openlife13Why do you poly? Why do you have an open marriage? These are questions that have been bouncing around in my head for a few weeks, consuming much of my thought time. I know why I poly. I know why I want an open marriage. I will share my reasons in this post and I hope you might do the same in the comments. Continue reading →

Lunch… Just More Interesting

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So, there’s this guy I like. And, he likes me too. So much so that he and I thought it would be good to get him in front of my poly panel. So the poly panel lunch date was set for today. I was so excited to finally bring them all together, to let them start getting to know each other and for him to begin to find his place in my/our life.

After coffee this morning, Daddy went to take a shower and when he was done he called me into the bedroom (as he sometimes does when he’s all naked and smelling good after his shower and needing to get off). This morning he tells me that we need to talk about this afternoon… about our lunch date. Pushing me down onto the bed and sliding his semi-hard cock in my mouth he gives me some instructions.

His cock grows hard against my tongue as the plan is laid out. Continue reading →